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<channel><title><![CDATA[Sacred Awakening - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2026 13:36:08 -0800</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Athena Challenge Women's Intensive 2026]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/athena-challenge-womens-intensive-2026]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/athena-challenge-womens-intensive-2026#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2026 00:26:29 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/athena-challenge-womens-intensive-2026</guid><description><![CDATA[    Art by The Bridge Brothers   Hello Dear Beings ~&nbsp;This is the yearly invitation to join a 6-week long intimate circle of activating accountability and support. For seven in-person meetings, we&rsquo;ll come together and consciously call upon the balance of Alpha directive support and structure and Omega flow, multiplying that internal relationship exponentially through the reflective mastermind and commitment of a group of eight powerful women.&nbsp;Past circles have been fertile grounds [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/published/1e7be4033229cf245e667a26508919e6.jpg?1768264293" alt="Picture" style="width:637;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Art by The Bridge Brothers</div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">Hello Dear Beings ~<br />&nbsp;<br />This is the yearly invitation to join a 6-week long intimate circle of activating accountability and support. For seven in-person meetings, we&rsquo;ll come together and consciously call upon the balance of Alpha directive support and structure and Omega flow, multiplying that internal relationship exponentially through the reflective mastermind and commitment of a group of eight powerful women.<br />&nbsp;<br />Past circles have been fertile grounds for focus, with multiple launched projects and businesses, significant personal growth, and lasting friendships. This is an opportunity for an accelerated, supported detox and reset for your life. We begin the final Monday in January and close the second week of March, making this a richly invigorating way to launch the year.<br />&nbsp;<br />THE CONTEXT: A 6-week-long intensive exercise of clearing space and seeing what can be fostered in a focused container of radical self-care, discipline, and sisterhood support.<br />&nbsp;<br />THE PURPOSE: To take on a rigorous, intense challenge that serves as a catalyst for positive change in all the realms of life most important to us. By closing off the usual escape routes, we have an opportunity to experience and move through the underlying emotional and mental habits we&rsquo;ve been avoiding addressing. In bringing extraordinary intentionality to our day-to-day living, through wholeheartedness, joyful engagement, generosity, and loving-kindness while addressing and clearing out all breaches in integrity, we consciously step into a powerful vision for ourselves.<br />&nbsp;<br />FORMAT:<br />~ 7 weekly in-person, mastermind-style meetings creating a clear 6-week-long container<br />~ An accountability partner for daily support<br />~ A Slack workspace to keep in touch with the group throughout the week<br />~ Shared integrity agreements witnessed and held by the group<br />~ Weekly visioning assignments to focus and inspire all major areas of your well-being<br />~ A worksheet to support the awareness and deep clearing of everything from relationship challenges to getting an oil change.<br />~ A group volunteer shift (approximately 4 hours) with an organization agreed on by the group<br />&nbsp;<br />INTEGRITY AGREEMENTS:<br />~&nbsp; You agree to make the following overarching commitments during the Athena Challenge Intensive:<br />~ You agree to treat your physical body with utmost kindness through a renewing, healthy regimen of nutrition and exercise, as well as sound healthcare.<br />~&nbsp; You agree to get adequate rest and sleep, taking exquisite care of yourself physically and emotionally.<br />~ You agree to remove all "check-out" activities from your lifestyle. No casual TV watching, casual Facebooking, casual online video watching (i.e. YouTube), or video game playing.<br />~ You agree to absolutely no use of alcohol or drugs. This is non-negotiable and includes marijuana and any other substances intended to alter consciousness, even in a ceremonial setting. (Managed medications prescribed to you by a licensed physician should, of course, continue to be taken. Medicinal cannabis use is also supported, along with clear agreements to the group. One &ldquo;Conscious Yes&rdquo; pass is allowed to each participant for one premeditated event that occurs during the Challenge.)<br />~ You agree to communicate daily with your accountability partner. This can be via phone, text, MarcoPolo, email, etc., as agreed upon by you both.<br />~ You agree to be coachable, to expand and grow, and to maintain regular communication with the group regarding both your successes and challenges.<br />~ While we participate in the Intensive as a group, drawing strength and inspiration from one another, you agree to be fully responsible for your own experience and well-being. What you get out of the Intensive will be directly proportional to how much energy and awareness you put into it.<br />~ You agree to attend all meetings and participate with generosity. (Other than for the opening and closing circles, one pre-planned absence is allowed.)<br />&nbsp;<br />Along with these underlying agreements, additional personal commitments are encouraged to help clear stagnant energies and make room for more vitality. These are outlined in a document you will receive one week before the start of the circle.<br />&nbsp;<br />ATTENDANCE:<br />Meetings will take place at my home in Oakland, punctually from 6:30-9:30 pm. Attendance at all meetings is mandatory. One pre-planned or emergency absence is permitted, except for the opening or closing meeting. Absences beyond this will be considered a withdrawal from the program. Attendance for a group volunteer project is also mandatory; the form and date will be determined by the group.<br /><br />The in-person meetings are an integral part of this container. Zooming in is not an option.<br />&nbsp;<br />DATES:<br />January 26th &ndash; Introductions and orientation<br />February 2nd &ndash; Focus on career and financial visioning<br />February 9th &ndash; Focus on relationship visioning<br />February 16th &ndash; Focus on sexuality and health visioning<br />February 23rd &ndash; Focus on home and community visioning<br />March 2nd &ndash; Focus on spirituality and world impact visioning<br />March 9th &ndash; Closing the container<br />&nbsp;<br />EXCHANGE: The financial agreement for the program is $600, with $200 of that being returned to you at completion. The $200 from anyone not completing the program, for whatever reason, will be donated to a charity of the group&rsquo;s choosing.<br />PayPal $50 to lisa@sacredawakening.com to secure your spot (friends and family option, please) or Venmo to @Just_Lisa. The balance is due by the first meeting. Send me an email at lisa@sacredawakening.com if you have any questions at all.<br />&nbsp;<br />~~~<br />ACKNOWLEDGMENT:<br />In 2010 I participated in an AC guided by Anna Liisa Wijnen Moter that rocked my world. That group ultimately extended the experience in various formats for over a year, continually refining what best served the group. Much of the format and material we&rsquo;ll be using was developed by Scott Swanson for a San Francisco men&rsquo;s group and was picked up, added to, and adapted for women by Anna Liisa. It&rsquo;s with much gratitude and honor to them, and to all those who&rsquo;ve come before, that their work is being carried forward now.<br />This will be my 10th year of refining and guiding this practice.<br />&nbsp;<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Athena Challenge - Intensive for Women]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/athena-challenge-intensive-for-women]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/athena-challenge-intensive-for-women#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2024 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/athena-challenge-intensive-for-women</guid><description><![CDATA[       February 5th - March 18th  This is an invitation to join a 6 week intimate circle of activating accountability and support.Come together in regular practice and consciously call upon the balance of Alpha directive action and Omega flow and multiply it exponentially through the reflective mastermind and commitment of a group of up to 10 powerful women. Past circles have been fertile grounds of focus with multiple launched projects and businesses, much personal growth, and lasting friendshi [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/published/screen-shot-2024-01-07-at-3-53-45-pm.png?1705805177" alt="Picture" style="width:564;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">February 5th - March 18th<br></h2>  <div class="paragraph"><span><font size="4">This is an invitation</font> to join a 6 week intimate circle of activating accountability and support.</span><br /><span>Come together in regular practice and consciously call upon the balance of Alpha directive action and Omega flow and multiply it exponentially through the reflective mastermind and commitment of a group of up to 10 powerful women. </span><br /><span>Past circles have been fertile grounds of focus with multiple launched projects and businesses, much personal growth, and lasting friendships. This is an opportunity for a turbo-charged detox and reset for your life, beginning the first Monday in February and closing just before the Equinox, releasing us into a powerful Spring.</span><br></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><font color="#2a2a2a">THE CONTEXT:</font> A 6 week long intensive exercise of clearing space and seeing what can be fostered in a focused container of radical self-care, discipline, and sisterhood support. </span><br /><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">THE PURPOSE:</font> To create and take on a rigorous, intense challenge that serves as a catalyst for positive change in all the realms of life most important to us. By closing off the usual escape routes we have an opportunity to experience and move through the underlying emotional and mental habits we&rsquo;ve been avoiding addressing. In bringing extraordinary intentionality to our day-to-day living, through wholeheartedness, joyful engagement, generosity, and loving-kindness while addressing and clearing out all breaches in integrity, we consciously step into a powerful vision for ourselves.</span><br /><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">FORMAT:</font><br />~ 7 weekly in-person, mastermind-style meetings creating a clear 6 week container<br />~ An accountability partner for daily support<br />~ A Slack workspace to keep in touch with the group throughout the week<br />~ Integrity agreements witnessed and held by the group<br />~ Weekly visioning assignments to focus and inspire all major areas of your well being<br />~ A worksheet to support the awareness and deep clearing of everything from relationship challenges to getting an oil change.<br />~ A group volunteer shift (approximately 4 hours) with an organization agreed on by the group</span><br /><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">INTEGRITY AGREEMENTS:</font><br />You agree to make the following overarching commitments during the Athena Challenge Intensive:<br />You agree to treat your physical body with the utmost kindness through a challenging, healthy regimen of nutrition and exercise, as well as sound health care.<br />You agree to remove all "space-out" activities from your lifestyle. No casual TV watching, casual Facebooking, casual online video watching (i.e. YouTube), or video game playing.<br />You agree to absolutely no use of alcohol or drugs. This is non-negotiable and includes marijuana and any other substances intended to alter experience, even in a ceremonial setting. (Managed medications prescribed to you by a licensed physician should, of course, continue to be taken.)<br />You agree to communicate daily with your accountability partner. This can be via phone, text, MarcoPolo, or email, according to what you agree to together.<br />You agree to get adequate rest and sleep, taking exquisite care of yourself physically and emotionally. This includes a goal of one hour of exercise five days a week.<br />You agree to be coachable, to expand and grow, and to be in regular communication with the group about your wins and struggles alike.<br />While we do the Intensive as a group and we draw strength and inspiration from one another, you agree to be fully responsible for your own experience and well-being. What you get out of the Intensive will be directly proportional to how much energy and awareness you put into it.<br />You agree to attend all meetings and participate with generosity. (Other than for the opening and closing circles, one pre-planned absence is allowed.)</span><br /><br /><span>A number of commitments are suggested in addition to these underlying agreements, intended to help clear out stagnant energies and make room for more vitality. These are outlined in a document you will receive one week before the start of the circle.</span><br /><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">ATTENDANCE:</font><br />Meetings will take place at my home, 3500 Calandria Ave in Oakland, strictly from 6:30-9:30pm (we may agree to shorter meetings with a smaller group, but definitely no longer). Attendance at all meetings is mandatory. One pre-planned or emergency absence is allowed, other than the opening or closing meeting. Absences beyond this will be considered leaving the program. Attendance for a group volunteer project is also mandatory, the form and date of which will be determined as a group.<br />The in-person meetings are an integral part of this container. Zooming in is not an option. </span><br /><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">DATES:</font><br />February 5th &ndash; Introductions and orientation<br />February 12th &ndash; Focus on career and financial visioning<br />February 19th &ndash; Focus on relationship visioning<br />February 26th &ndash; Focus on sexuality and health visioning<br />March 4th &ndash; Focus on home and community visioning<br />March 11th &ndash; Focus on spirituality and world impact visioning<br />March 18th &ndash; Closure </span><br /><br /><span><font color="#2a2a2a">EXCHANGE: </font>The financial agreement for the program is $500 with $200 of that being returned to you at the completion. The $200 from anyone not completing the program, for whatever reason, will be donated to a charity of the group&rsquo;s choosing. </span><br /><span>PayPal $50 to lisa@sacredawakening.com to secure your spot (friends and family option, please). The balance is due at the first meeting.<br />&nbsp;<br /><font color="#2a2a2a" size="4">Send me an email at <a href="mailto:lisa@sacredawakening.com">lisa@sacredawakening.com</a> to set up a call to feel out together if this is a good fit. </font></span><br /><br /><span>~~~<br /><font color="#2a2a2a">ACKNOWLEDGMENT:</font><br />In 2010 I participated in an AC guided by AnnaLiisa Wijnen Moter that rocked my world. That group ended up extending the experience in different formats for over a year, all the while refining what best served the group. Much of the format and material we&rsquo;ll be using was developed by Scott Swanson for a San Francisco men&rsquo;s group and was picked up, added to, and adapted for women by AnnaLiisa. It&rsquo;s with much gratitude and honor to them, and to all those who&rsquo;ve come before, that their work is being carried forward now.<br />This will be my 7th year of refining and guiding this practice. </span><br /><br /><span>* Art by LvSoulCreations </span><br /><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Desire, Fear, And Taboo Class 2024]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/desire-fear-and-taboo-class-2024]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/desire-fear-and-taboo-class-2024#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 01 Aug 2023 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/desire-fear-and-taboo-class-2024</guid><description><![CDATA[Honored to be teaching the next round of the 7 week Desire, Fear, and Taboo course with Rahasya Advaita at the Shakti Shiva Academy.&nbsp; This is a phenomenal way to quickly get access to the foundations I work with and will serve you in all areas of life.&nbsp;Use code lisa10 for 10% off registration.&nbsp;Learn more and register HERE. [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"><a><img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/347420977-767871441494131-2614181227544713160-n-orig_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"><table class="wsite-multicol-table"><tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"><tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"><td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:61.141304347826%; padding:0 15px;"><div><div id="669263205912135619" align="center" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/LJJ8WgsHW9A?si=fsQuFebJySX_0jG6" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div></div></td><td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:38.858695652174%; padding:0 15px;"><div class="paragraph"><font size="4" color="#2A2A2A"><strong>Honored</strong></font> <font color="#2A2A2A">to be teaching the next round of the 7 week Desire, Fear, and Taboo course with Rahasya Advaita at the Shakti Shiva Academy.&nbsp; This is a phenomenal way to quickly get access to the foundations I work with and will serve you in all areas of life.&nbsp;</font><br><br><font color="#2A2A2A">Use code lisa10 for 10% off registration.&nbsp;<br><br>Learn more and register <a href="https://shaktishiva.academy/desire-fear-taboo-live-2023" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</font><br></div></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Out With My Inner Alpha]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/out-with-my-inner-alpha]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/out-with-my-inner-alpha#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 04:58:15 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/out-with-my-inner-alpha</guid><description><![CDATA[    Photo by Austin Distel on Unsplash      A few nights ago, I went down to San Jose to see one of my favorite people whom I haven&rsquo;t hung out with in over two years.&nbsp; I love hanging out with him.&nbsp; We share a joy for this being human thing.&nbsp;&nbsp;We were sitting at a restaurant bar and a man came up right next to me to order a drink.&nbsp;I overheard something that interested me.&nbsp; I commented.&nbsp; He moved around to speak to both my friend and me.&nbsp; He immediately [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/austin-distel-iuitg35kah0-unsplash_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@austindistel?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Austin Distel</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/s/photos/man-suit-with-a-drink?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a>   </div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong><font size="5">A few nights ago</font></strong>, I went down to San Jose to see one of my favorite people whom I haven&rsquo;t hung out with in over two years.&nbsp; I love hanging out with him.&nbsp; We share a joy for this being human thing.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />We were sitting at a restaurant bar and a man came up right next to me to order a drink.&nbsp;<br />I overheard something that interested me.&nbsp; I commented.&nbsp; He moved around to speak to both my friend and me.&nbsp; He immediately tried a <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negging" target="_blank">neg</a> (something that not only doesn&rsquo;t work with me but glaringly highlights &ldquo;game&rdquo; with comedic effect).&nbsp; It took him less than 2 minutes to casually drop what a powerful consultant in Silicon Valley he is.&nbsp;<br />Shortly after, I told him I was ready to focus on my friend again and he politely made an exit.&nbsp;<br /><br />Maybe an hour later, my friend and I finish dinner and move on to meet up with friends at a place with music.&nbsp; I notice on the way in that Mr. Consultant also happens to be there.</font></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#2a2a2a">The music is good, and I get to dance!&nbsp; I haven&rsquo;t been out like this in over two years. The dance floor is empty other than our group.&nbsp; I&rsquo;m laughing.&nbsp; I&rsquo;m sweating.&nbsp; It&rsquo;s excellent.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />Consultant dude comes up to me, leans in, and confidently and seductively says, &ldquo;I can tell from the way you dance that you sex good.&rdquo;<br />&nbsp;<br />No, seriously.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />Out of nowhere.&nbsp;<br /><br />I&rsquo;d acknowledged his presence when I saw him when we arrived, but he and I hadn&rsquo;t talked again. I wasn&rsquo;t making eye contact with him.&nbsp; Nothing.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />But he&rsquo;s not wrong.<br />So, I turn directly to him, look him in the eye, and say with cheerful earnestness, &ldquo;I respect your assessment.&rdquo; Then turn away and continue my thing.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />A minute later, he moves in again.<br />&ldquo;Hey&hellip; I just gave you a compliment.&rdquo;<br />Again, I turn towards him and give him my complete attention.&nbsp; I see there a mixture of anger and hurt.&nbsp; A little accusatory and victimy.&nbsp;&nbsp; Like, this poor innocent guy was just being nice, and, WTF? &nbsp;Why would I treat him like that? &nbsp;He seems genuinely confused.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />&ldquo;Oh!&rdquo; I say, startled. &ldquo;And what&rsquo;s the problem now? I didn&rsquo;t give you what you were expecting me to?&rdquo;&nbsp; I look at him kindly but steadily, curious if he&rsquo;ll be able to agree. But he looks more flustered and turns away.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />Now, we can debate the content of his &ldquo;compliment&rdquo; and if hearing from a virtually random stranger that they can tell you sex good is actually that, but what&rsquo;s more interesting is what his reaction to my response revealed.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /><a href="https://bettymartin.org/" target="_blank">Dr Betty Martin</a>&rsquo;s work, the <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auokDp_EA80&amp;t=46s" target="_blank">Wheel of Consent</a>, breaks this down.&nbsp; Often, when an exchange feels &ldquo;icky&rdquo; it&rsquo;s because someone wasn&rsquo;t being honest with their intention.&nbsp; If you present that you&rsquo;re giving a gift but get upset when someone doesn&rsquo;t respond the way you hoped, it&rsquo;s a tip off that you weren&rsquo;t actually giving.&nbsp; You were really desiring to receive and going about it in a strategic way. You were angling. Your &ldquo;gift&rdquo; had strings.&nbsp; If you&rsquo;re real about that you can&rsquo;t really blame someone for not wanting to take it then, can you?</font><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">I think any woman recognizes this: I didn&rsquo;t follow the script.</font></strong><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">I was supposed to say, &ldquo;Thank you.&rdquo;&nbsp; I also didn&rsquo;t blush or get coy or flirt.&nbsp; Actually, what happened is my Alpha stepped in and handled it.&nbsp; <strong>My inner masculine showed right up, conscious, and confident, and rational.&nbsp; And he had no need to be anything but kind.&nbsp;</strong> This man was no threat.&nbsp; But there was no reason for my Omega to relate to him.&nbsp; She just wanted to dance. &nbsp;My inner masculine&rsquo;s presence allowed all of me to feel safe, which allowed me to stay present with myself, and to remain kind &ndash; to myself first and also to the man.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />I debated writing about this. I wondered if it would be perceived as mean.&nbsp; I decided that&rsquo;s my &ldquo;good girl&rdquo; telling me so &ndash; the one that believes the right answer to even an incongruent and presumptuous "compliment" is, &ldquo;thank you,&rdquo; and I shouldn&rsquo;t &ldquo;pick on&rdquo; the guy.&nbsp; Shouldn&rsquo;t pick on him by what? By being really honest and not following the script? &nbsp;<br />I&rsquo;m also wondering if anyone will read this and look for where I made my mistakes.&nbsp; What did I do wrong that invited this kind of attention?<br />Or maybe there&rsquo;s belief the other direction, that I should have been less kind and more firm with him. But should I have been scared? Or angry? Or righteous? Or offended?<br />So many shoulds.<br />I chose kindness. Not "niceness." Kindness.<br />&nbsp;<br />When the place closes down a bit later Mr Consultant is at the bar closing out and sees me leaving.&nbsp;<br />&ldquo;Don&rsquo;t go yet!&rsquo; He calls out to me.<br />I turn towards him, but the cool air from the open door touches my skin and I tell him that&rsquo;s what I&rsquo;m ready for.&nbsp;<br />&ldquo;No!&rdquo; He bursts out. &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t leave me.&rdquo; And I&rsquo;m suddenly looking at a 3-year-old in a suit.&nbsp; I tell him I&rsquo;ll be just outside.&nbsp;<br />My goodness.&nbsp;<br />This is what happens when the tricks don&rsquo;t work?&nbsp; This is what happens when I&rsquo;m fully authentic, kind, and equanimous?<br />This is what happens when I walk through life in partnership with my own Alpha.<br />Over the course of 2 hours, I watched a man go from a suave, confident, high-powered executive to a needy toddler. <br />Social and gender expectations are a trip.&nbsp; Especially on alcohol, where polarity comes out at it's best and worst.</font><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sexual Shadow Integration Work Course begins April 7th, 2022]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/sexual-shadow-integration-work-course-begins-april-7th-2022]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/sexual-shadow-integration-work-course-begins-april-7th-2022#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 07 Mar 2022 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/sexual-shadow-integration-work-course-begins-april-7th-2022</guid><description><![CDATA[       This is a big deep dive into all the most disregarded, inconvenient, "No, I don't wanna!" (though I really do) places in our being.It's not comfortable. It's not always sexy.When I first found this work, created by Shakti Malan, in 2011, it changed everything in me. It was a resonance of truth I'd always known was out there. It was thrilling and liberating and unwaveringly confronting, walking me up to every edge I was ready for.It's now a complete honor to be continuing to offer this wor [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/274868754-4819838348052528-516794519842697695-n-orig_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">This is a big deep dive into all the most disregarded, inconvenient, "No, I don't wanna!" (though I really do) places in our being.<br /><br />It's not comfortable. It's not always sexy.<br /><br />When I first found this work, created by Shakti Malan, in 2011, it changed everything in me. It was a resonance of truth I'd always known was out there. It was thrilling and liberating and unwaveringly confronting, walking me up to every edge I was ready for.<br />It's now a complete honor to be continuing to offer this work and hold this world wide and infinitely deep container, lovingly inviting all those shadowed parts of self out into the open.<br /><br />Appropriate for all bodies and orientations.<br />Course <font size="5">starts April 7th.</font><br />Early bird pricing only available through the end of April 2nd.<br />&#8203;<br />As we say in this work... all those reactions and emotions and desires you've been putting off to deal with later in your life?<br /><strong><font size="5">Later is now.</font></strong><br /><br /><font color="#8d2424">Register <a href="http://shaktishiva.academy/sexual-shadow-work-integration-2022/aff/15/" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</font><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Soulmate Within Course begins January 6th, 2022]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/soulmate-within-course-begins-january-6th-2022]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/soulmate-within-course-begins-january-6th-2022#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2022 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/soulmate-within-course-begins-january-6th-2022</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						  shaktishiva.academy/soulmate-within-course-live/aff/15/You are the partner you'll have for your&nbsp;entire life.Start listening to yourself like you've always wanted to be listened to. &nbsp;In the quest for an ideal love partner and relationships, the myth of the soulmate runs strong. Yet we treat the relationship inside of ourselves with unconscious disdain, constantly looking outside of ourselves for satisfaction and&nbsp;completion.We invite you to immerse in 3  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><strong style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)"><font color="#8d5024"><a href="https://shaktishiva.academy/soulmate-within-course-live/aff/15/" target="_blank">shaktishiva.academy/soulmate-within-course-live/aff/15/</a>You are the partner you'll have for your&nbsp;entire life.<br />Start listening to yourself like you've always wanted to be listened to. &nbsp;</font></strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">In the quest for an ideal love partner and relationships, the myth of the soulmate runs strong. Yet we treat the relationship inside of ourselves with unconscious disdain, constantly looking outside of ourselves for satisfaction and&nbsp;completion.</font><br /><span style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">We invite you to immerse in 3 months of practice, principles, and technologies that can radically transform your inner and outer relationship life</span><strong style="color:rgb(42, 42, 42)">. It is possible to relate to others from utter, satisfied, wholeness, and meet the world from there.</strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&#8203;Learn more about The Soulmate Within&nbsp;</span><a href="https://shaktishiva.academy/soulmate-within-course-live/aff/15/" target="_blank">HERE</a><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/published/course-smw-live-product-image-course-1-orig.png?1648789642" alt="Picture" style="width:378;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Vitality]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/vitality]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/vitality#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 27 Dec 2021 02:46:21 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/vitality</guid><description><![CDATA[       I dip my fingers into the&nbsp;Thickness of This MomentAnd lick the honey&nbsp;&nbsp;Wantonly&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Savoring.&nbsp;      The awareness of my tongue&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Not missing a single complexity.All my senses&nbsp;&nbsp;this nectar&nbsp;Communing.&nbsp;The jagged rawness,&nbsp;the delicate sweetness,&nbsp;the aching yearning,ThisAmbrosia&nbsp;Is overwhelming.&nbsp;I receive this.And as Life runs down my chinThe pulse of Now&nbsp;courses&nbsp;Through meA little surrender [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/screen-shot-2021-12-26-at-6-44-49-pm_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">I dip my fingers into the&nbsp;<br />Thickness of This Moment<br />And lick the honey<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;Wantonly<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Savoring.&nbsp;<br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">The awareness of my tongue</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Not missing a single complexity.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">All my senses</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&nbsp;&nbsp;this nectar&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Communing.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">The jagged rawness,&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">the delicate sweetness,&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">the aching yearning,</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">This</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Ambrosia&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Is overwhelming.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">I receive this.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">And as Life runs down my chin</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">The pulse of Now</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&nbsp;courses&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Through me</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">A little surrender washing away&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">All that is not me.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">I am full.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">There is nothing more to want.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Until the next&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Moment. &nbsp;</span>&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Basic Sexual Shadow Course begins October 5th, 2021]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/basic-sexual-shadow-course-begins-october-5th-2021]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/basic-sexual-shadow-course-begins-october-5th-2021#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2021 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/basic-sexual-shadow-course-begins-october-5th-2021</guid><description><![CDATA[       This mini-course is based on the Basic Sexual Shadow Work book written by Shakti Malan, the founder of the Shakti Shiva Academy.&nbsp; Through this course you will be empowered to awaken and access the true power of your sexuality.&nbsp; Together we will delve into the dimensions of our sexuality that express themselves from our unconscious, or what Jung referred to as our shadow. &nbsp;This basic course is a satisfying (or tantalizing) overview of the 9 month version offered again next y [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/published/screen-shot-2021-09-27-at-8-02-09-pm.png?1640074304" alt="Picture" style="width:642;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">This mini-course is based on the Basic Sexual Shadow Work book written by Shakti Malan, the founder of the Shakti Shiva Academy.&nbsp; Through this course you will be empowered to awaken and access the true power of your sexuality.&nbsp; Together we will delve into the dimensions of our sexuality that express themselves from our unconscious, or what Jung referred to as our shadow. &nbsp;This basic course is a satisfying (or tantalizing) overview of the 9 month version offered again next year. &nbsp;Appropriate for all genders and sexual orientations.&nbsp;<br />&#8203;Learn more about Basic Sexual Shadow Work&nbsp;<a href="https://shaktishiva.academy/ssw-mini-course-live/aff/15/" target="_blank">HERE</a>.&nbsp;</span><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Feminine Sexual Awakening Conversation with Emmi Mutale]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/feminine-sexual-awakening-conversation-with-emmi-mutale]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/feminine-sexual-awakening-conversation-with-emmi-mutale#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2021 17:47:28 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/feminine-sexual-awakening-conversation-with-emmi-mutale</guid><description><![CDATA[Recently did a super rich and fun interview with Emmi Mutale&nbsp;of the Feminine Revered podcast, discussing Feminine sexual awakening and the upcoming 9 month Sexual Awakening for Women course offered by the Shakti Shiva Academy. &nbsp;Watch the video or click here to learn more about this deep diving course that was developed by the late Dr. Shakti Malan.&nbsp; [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div id="419426190699527120" align="center" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/CENKjsf2hAU" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div></div><div class="paragraph"><br><font size="5">R</font>ecently did a super rich and fun interview with <a href="https://femininerevered.com/my-journey/" target="_blank">Emmi Mutale</a>&nbsp;of the Feminine Revered podcast, discussing Feminine sexual awakening and the upcoming 9 month Sexual Awakening for Women course offered by the Shakti Shiva Academy. &nbsp;<br><br>Watch the video or <a href="https://shaktishiva.academy/sexualawakeningforwomenonline/aff/15/" target="_blank">click here</a> to learn more about this deep diving course that was developed by the late <a href="https://www.shaktimalanlegacy.com" target="_blank">Dr. Shakti Malan</a>.&nbsp;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Adult "I Don't Know"]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/the-adult-i-dont-know]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/the-adult-i-dont-know#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2021 17:03:21 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.sacredawakening.com/blog/the-adult-i-dont-know</guid><description><![CDATA[       Separating in the mind the moment between&#8203;the noticingand the meaning making,&nbsp;There is the space of,&ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know.&rdquo; &nbsp;If I think about it,this space is somewhat scary; plunging meinto the instability of a nebulous existence, no place toanchor or stabilize or get me perspective from.&nbsp;&#8203;If I feel about it,      this space is absolutely quenchingsurrender.&nbsp;And I don&rsquo;t need a heightened experience to find this.I don&rsquo;t need an orgasm  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="http://www.sacredawakening.com/uploads/5/2/5/9/52597419/blur-blurred-green-1204_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="6">S</font>eparating in the mind the moment between<br />&#8203;the noticing<br />and the meaning making,&nbsp;<br />There is the space of,<br />&ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know.&rdquo; &nbsp;<br /><br />If I <strong>think</strong> about it,<br />this space is somewhat scary; plunging me<br />into the instability of a nebulous existence, no place to<br />anchor or stabilize or get me perspective from.&nbsp;<br /><br />&#8203;If I <strong>feel</strong> about it,<br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">this space is absolutely quenching</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">surrender.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">And I don&rsquo;t need a heightened experience to find this.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">I don&rsquo;t need an orgasm or a medicine journey or a kink scene.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">All I need is a moment.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">All I need is to dip my cup into the stream of ever flowing moments</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">at any time.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">And then become porous, so the moments can keep passing through,</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">not getting swept into the folly of trying to catch any particular one.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">And then to feel the miraculous churning of</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Now and Now and Now</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">that will never dry up.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">I call this The Adult "I Don&rsquo;t Know" because it&rsquo;s a full circle</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">back to before we knew there was knowing.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Back before there was anything other than the wonder and curiosity.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Back before we were supposed to know.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Now, the I Don&rsquo;t Know has the step of letting go of the oh so known.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">The right or wrong that gives solace.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">The fear that letting go of the right will make us wrong.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">The belief that if there is no right it is all wrong.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">But what if it&rsquo;s all right?&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">ALL right.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">All right?&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">The Adult I Don&rsquo;t Know comes with so many things.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Vocabulary and reach and drivers licenses and money and</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">deadlines and jobs and phones and internet and credit cards and</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">broken hearts and rent and pets and children of our own and</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">history... so much history.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">So, when? When is it ok to be in the I Don&rsquo;t Know?&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">How about right now?</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Just... for a moment.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>